MAID/ MATRON of HONOR GUIDELINES

Being asked to be a Maid (if you're single) or a Matron (if married) of Honor is meant to be an honor. Since you are the closest family relative or a very good friend of the Bride, it's only natural that you would be willing to help.  Offer assistance and moral support whenever possible; the Bride will always appreciate your help and cooperation.

Wedding Gown
Assist the Bride in choosing a dress for herself and for her Bridesmaids.  Confirm timely delivery of Bridesmaids' dresses.

Bridal Shower
The Maid/ Matron of Honor and Bridesmaids always host the event.  Let guests know where couple is registered in advance.

Prior to Ceremony
Help with organizational details, if asked. Help make the table favors.  Assist the Bride get dressed on her wedding day.  Help the Bride in any way possible.

Day of Wedding Ceremony
Keep the Groom's ring until needed. Hold Bride's Bouquet during vows.  Straighten Bride's veil and train whenever necessary.

Wedding Reception
Give second toast to our Bride & Groom.  More than likely, unless you are used to speaking in front of large crowds, you'll be nervous too.  Write your thoughts down on a 3x5 card that you can keep near you. Remember to lift your champagne glass at the end of the toast and encourage everyone to toast our happy couple.  Pin Bride's train prior to her First Dance.  Offer moral support whenever necessary!